By hand I'd say:
Wash with choice of shampoo & 2 bucket method,
Dry
Clay
Polish
Seal (Not essential unless going balls out imo)
Wax
Dress tyres
Clean & dress interior.
I'll list what I used on my old Milano CTR in the past & you can see the results here:
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Although ignore the products & order used on those posts as I have learnt by the error of my ways
Shampoo - Megs NXT Shampoo with wash mitt
Clay - Megs Quick Clay System (So easy to use it's silly)
Polish - Autoglym Super Resin Polish
Sealant - Autoglyms Extra Gloss Protection (Pain in the arse to use, only use a very thin layer)
Wax - I personally think Nattys Blue Paste Wax will look gorgeous on Milano thats well prep'd. Alternatively if you can find some Natty's Red Limited Edition Paste Wax
Tyre Dress - Megs Tyre Dressing
Apply polish & wax with applicator pads & use microfibre cloths to remove the product.
It's common sense in all honest.
Use the above easy to get hold of products in that order & if your not impressed I'll be very very surprised.